1. Back-to-school stress can stir up big feelings for kids with trauma histories.
2. Safe, simple conversations build trust and emotional security.
3. Listening with warmth and curiosity sets the tone for the year.
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When Children Speak Their Truth,
Our Job Is to Hear Them
A new school year can be hard for any child, especially children who have experienced trauma. Ongoing stress changes a child’s brain. This can lead to problems in learning, behavior, and physical and mental health. These behaviors may seem impossible to stop or avoid.
Parents, caregivers, and educators can help children navigate this transition by creating safe, supportive spaces to talk about worries, hopes, and everyday experiences. Engaging in warm, curiosity-driven conversations not only strengthens trust and emotional security but also helps children feel seen, heard, and ready to face the challenges and opportunities of a new school year. Using structured questions, playful prompts, or casual check-ins over dinner or during school shopping can make these discussions natural, effective, and even fun.
ConnectionPlus team can assist you in gaining a new understanding and build stronger, more meaningful connections. Lean into our Back to School Series to set your child up for a successful school year.
Ask These Questions Over Dinner or During Your Back to School Shopping Sessions.
1. What is one thing you are looking forward to about this new school year?
2. What teacher are you most excited to see again?
3. What makes them a great teacher?
4. What is a favorite memory you have of our summer?
5. What do you think about as you to fall asleep at night?
6. Any worries about this new school year?
7. How can I best support you this year?
8. What do I do that helps you feel safe?
9. Is there anything I do that makes you feel sad or anxious?
10. Is there anything else you want to talk about?
1. Pencil and printed handout
2. Open hearts and listening ears
3. No judgment. No lectures. No criticism.
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